Awwwwwwww...We made it! 30 days of cleansing, getting back intouch with oneself and respecting our own inner strength!
So today I send you out and remember a smile doesn't cost a thing, saying Thank You when a compliment is layed before comes freely, and when asked out to dinner enjoy the meal it's just Dinner...(smiling)
Anyway go forth date, enjoy, but most importantly be honest and be wise. Listen to your inner voice.
Check me out starting Monday June 27th,...You're going to love this next blog!!!!!
Friday, June 24, 2011
Thursday, June 23, 2011
DAY 29 of the breakup calendar
Good afternoon everyone,
This hot and muggy day ......
Today I want you to make reservations for Brunch on Sunday! Go by yourself or with a great group of friends.
Have great conversation and embrace the stronger you! Celebrate ........
This hot and muggy day ......
Today I want you to make reservations for Brunch on Sunday! Go by yourself or with a great group of friends.
Have great conversation and embrace the stronger you! Celebrate ........
Wednesday, June 22, 2011
DAY 28 of the Breakup calendar
Morning all....
So your task today is to go purchase a Plant and you must remember to water it Every day. Why is this important you ask?
It will continue to keep your mind occupied and will begin to establish a routine. A small routine but none the less a routine.
You know helping to re-enforce the concept of getting back into the swing of things. i'm thinking in 2 more days you guys will be ready to get back into the dating scene!
So your task today is to go purchase a Plant and you must remember to water it Every day. Why is this important you ask?
It will continue to keep your mind occupied and will begin to establish a routine. A small routine but none the less a routine.
You know helping to re-enforce the concept of getting back into the swing of things. i'm thinking in 2 more days you guys will be ready to get back into the dating scene!
Tuesday, June 21, 2011
DAY 27 of the Breakup calendar
Afternoon all.....
Wow 3 more days and we will have completed some steps into getting ourselves back. Today is the day I want you to Schedule a Massage....
Go and get a deep tissue or try a rub ...at any rate make the appointment to be seen at your nearest SPA....
Wow 3 more days and we will have completed some steps into getting ourselves back. Today is the day I want you to Schedule a Massage....
Go and get a deep tissue or try a rub ...at any rate make the appointment to be seen at your nearest SPA....
Monday, June 20, 2011
DAY 26 of the Breakup Calendar
Today is the day you are allowed to scream at the top of your lungs....
Let Yourself get MAD about how You Let your EX treat you.Then vow to never let that happen again to you!
Got it.....now lets get this out of our systems.....
Let Yourself get MAD about how You Let your EX treat you.Then vow to never let that happen again to you!
Got it.....now lets get this out of our systems.....
Sunday, June 19, 2011
DAY 25 of the Breakup Calendar
It's father's Day so happy father's day to all you Dads!
This evening get to know yourself I mean Know YourSelf...Personally Feel yourself, explore yourselves....
If you don't know what makes you happy in the bedroom how is your partner to know...
Ummmmmm.....
This evening get to know yourself I mean Know YourSelf...Personally Feel yourself, explore yourselves....
If you don't know what makes you happy in the bedroom how is your partner to know...
Ummmmmm.....
Thursday, June 16, 2011
DAY 24 of the Breakup Calendar
Hello everyone,
When was the last time you had date night with yourself? t's been awhile hasn't it? So if not this evening maybe tomorrow go see a movie just you alone. Get that favorite movie candy you love so much. Junior Mints, Mike and Ike....Large popcorn...
Me I'm going to see Jumping the Broom....
enjoy..........
When was the last time you had date night with yourself? t's been awhile hasn't it? So if not this evening maybe tomorrow go see a movie just you alone. Get that favorite movie candy you love so much. Junior Mints, Mike and Ike....Large popcorn...
Me I'm going to see Jumping the Broom....
enjoy..........
Wednesday, June 15, 2011
DAY 23 of the Breakup Calendar
FLASH forward 25 years from now.....
This is what I call the really long term plan in your life. I put this question before you," What do you want to be like, how do see yourself?"
Some of us have a blueprint with steps to ge there and some of us can't even think pass today.
No pressure just someting to think about.
This is what I call the really long term plan in your life. I put this question before you," What do you want to be like, how do see yourself?"
Some of us have a blueprint with steps to ge there and some of us can't even think pass today.
No pressure just someting to think about.
Tuesday, June 14, 2011
DAY 22 of the Breakup calendar
Good afternoon,
Today is the day you get a new look!... So make an appointment with your stylist or barber!
Lets get that new hair cut or trim.... It's time to begin the process of the new you. Since we are making changes on the inside it's time to make some outside changes as well!!!
Today is the day you get a new look!... So make an appointment with your stylist or barber!
Lets get that new hair cut or trim.... It's time to begin the process of the new you. Since we are making changes on the inside it's time to make some outside changes as well!!!
Monday, June 13, 2011
DAY 21 of the Breakup calendar
Happy Monday Morning All!!!!!
Wow can you guys believe it we have only 9 days left together.. So Sad...So lets make the best of this.
So today is the day I want you all to do something for someone else. Let us mark the this day as the Day of Giving...
Today take time out and donate Blood to the Red Cross, or volunteer an hour of your time to read to children at your local library. Just get involved!
Wow can you guys believe it we have only 9 days left together.. So Sad...So lets make the best of this.
So today is the day I want you all to do something for someone else. Let us mark the this day as the Day of Giving...
Today take time out and donate Blood to the Red Cross, or volunteer an hour of your time to read to children at your local library. Just get involved!
Thursday, June 9, 2011
DAY 20 of the Breakup calendar
Hi everybody,
How are we all ddoing today? We have now reached the 20 day mark of our breakup calendar. How are we feeling?
Tonight is movie night!!! YAY!!!!! but instead of the girlie flicks we love such as; Jumping the Broom...
Lets rent a classic G.I. Jane, GIRL POWER.... So log onto Netflicks and rent that movie for tonight!
Enjoy!!!!!!!!!!!
How are we all ddoing today? We have now reached the 20 day mark of our breakup calendar. How are we feeling?
Tonight is movie night!!! YAY!!!!! but instead of the girlie flicks we love such as; Jumping the Broom...
Lets rent a classic G.I. Jane, GIRL POWER.... So log onto Netflicks and rent that movie for tonight!
Enjoy!!!!!!!!!!!
Wednesday, June 8, 2011
DAY 19 of the Breakup Calendar
Afternoon guys.... OMG it's hot as all get out! Stay cool today everyone.
You know how you feel hearing that soothig voice on the other line of a phone call. The one that tells you everything is going to be okay. And no matter the time you can always call them, thisis because their love for you is unconditional.
So today, give you mom or dad or both a call. Trust me they will be glad to here from you. ;)
So, before you close your eyes tonight to say good night, give mom and dad a call.
You know how you feel hearing that soothig voice on the other line of a phone call. The one that tells you everything is going to be okay. And no matter the time you can always call them, thisis because their love for you is unconditional.
So today, give you mom or dad or both a call. Trust me they will be glad to here from you. ;)
So, before you close your eyes tonight to say good night, give mom and dad a call.
Tuesday, June 7, 2011
DAY 18 of the Breakup calendar
Good afternoon on this warm Tuesday.....
Today is an easy day for us all. When you get off stop pass your local market/grocery store. Shop or foods you love and go home and make a Feast just for you.
That's right treat yourselves this evening and cook an awwsome Dinner. Now for those of us that have 2 left feet in the kitchen, I will suggest to you make dinner reservations or call you favorite restaurant and order carry out. And don't forget Dessert! this is most important...
Happy indulgence......
Today is an easy day for us all. When you get off stop pass your local market/grocery store. Shop or foods you love and go home and make a Feast just for you.
That's right treat yourselves this evening and cook an awwsome Dinner. Now for those of us that have 2 left feet in the kitchen, I will suggest to you make dinner reservations or call you favorite restaurant and order carry out. And don't forget Dessert! this is most important...
Happy indulgence......
Monday, June 6, 2011
DAY 17 of the Breakup Calendar
Good morning everyone....Happy Monday!
So I hope you all have enjoyed your weekend and enjoyed the warm weather. Today is the day you fix something that has been broken in the house.
So today grab your tools and that tool box and fix something around the house Yourself...
Happy Fix-it Day to All......
So I hope you all have enjoyed your weekend and enjoyed the warm weather. Today is the day you fix something that has been broken in the house.
So today grab your tools and that tool box and fix something around the house Yourself...
Happy Fix-it Day to All......
Thursday, June 2, 2011
DAY 16 of the Breakup calendar
Good morning all.....
Let's learn something new, lets take on that challenge. So I encourage you to go and Sign up for that Class. Go take that cooking class, or that class on Greek Mythology...What ever it is Lets Broaden our horizons...
Get to it.......
Let's learn something new, lets take on that challenge. So I encourage you to go and Sign up for that Class. Go take that cooking class, or that class on Greek Mythology...What ever it is Lets Broaden our horizons...
Get to it.......
Wednesday, June 1, 2011
DAY 15 of the Breakup Calendar
Evening everyone,
Tonight is the night you should Host a Ladies Only Night! Call the girls over open a couple of bottles of Wine, chill some glasses for those awesome Lemon Drops!!!
Now if tonight isn't a good night then do it tomorrow or some time this weekend.....
Enjoy Chicas.... #hostesswiththemosts
Tonight is the night you should Host a Ladies Only Night! Call the girls over open a couple of bottles of Wine, chill some glasses for those awesome Lemon Drops!!!
Now if tonight isn't a good night then do it tomorrow or some time this weekend.....
Enjoy Chicas.... #hostesswiththemosts
Tuesday, May 31, 2011
DAY 14 of the Breakup Calendar
Wow... If it gets any hotter I won't be out unitl September!!! lmbo .
Today is an easy day. Remember the days of our innocence? When you liked a girl or guy and would pass THAT note. You know " Do you like me circle yes or no" ...hahaha it was so easy back in the day.
Now call your little niece, sit with your daughter, or your little girl cousin. Recapture the Innocence in being young again.....
Keep cool everybody......
Today is an easy day. Remember the days of our innocence? When you liked a girl or guy and would pass THAT note. You know " Do you like me circle yes or no" ...hahaha it was so easy back in the day.
Now call your little niece, sit with your daughter, or your little girl cousin. Recapture the Innocence in being young again.....
Keep cool everybody......
Monday, May 30, 2011
DAY 13 of the Breakup calendar
Happy Memorial Day everyone....
I hope you all enjoyed the trips to the beaches, Spring Fest in Miami, bike week in Myrtle Beach and Ocean City MD. And everywhere else you may have ventured out to; Wine Festivals, camping, hiking etc.
Now today I want you all to take a minute grab a pen and paper and sit down and Write a Letter to Your Best Friend. Tell them all that's going on even if you guys talk everyday!
Happy scribing......
I hope you all enjoyed the trips to the beaches, Spring Fest in Miami, bike week in Myrtle Beach and Ocean City MD. And everywhere else you may have ventured out to; Wine Festivals, camping, hiking etc.
Now today I want you all to take a minute grab a pen and paper and sit down and Write a Letter to Your Best Friend. Tell them all that's going on even if you guys talk everyday!
Happy scribing......
Friday, May 27, 2011
DAY 12 of the Breakup Calendar
Happy Friday to you all.......
Today is the day you embrace either your Girlie Girl Side/or that Manly Side of one self.
For you ladies out there put on the pretty bright color Pink, Yellow, Light Blue, let your hair down.. make sure your nails and toes have been mani and pedi. It is Summer time ladies and you know we love to show our toes.
For you fellas get to the barbershop , get the ride detailed, you know how yall carry it!!!
Today is the day you embrace either your Girlie Girl Side/or that Manly Side of one self.
For you ladies out there put on the pretty bright color Pink, Yellow, Light Blue, let your hair down.. make sure your nails and toes have been mani and pedi. It is Summer time ladies and you know we love to show our toes.
For you fellas get to the barbershop , get the ride detailed, you know how yall carry it!!!
Thursday, May 26, 2011
DAY 11 of the Breakup calendar
Hello all...
I hope everyone is enjoying this warm weather. So today is the day you start saving ...you're going to love this one.....
"The GO TO HELL FUND" .... Now this fund may be used for anything you wish put as much into it as you desire. What ever you purchase from this fund let it have an impact.
1. New Car
2. New house or major upgrades
3. Strawberry or Chocolate diamonds.... Don't buy red bottom everyone has those, get a pair of Pink Bottoms Alex McQueen
You get my drift...Happy creating the " Go To HELL Fund"
I hope everyone is enjoying this warm weather. So today is the day you start saving ...you're going to love this one.....
"The GO TO HELL FUND" .... Now this fund may be used for anything you wish put as much into it as you desire. What ever you purchase from this fund let it have an impact.
1. New Car
2. New house or major upgrades
3. Strawberry or Chocolate diamonds.... Don't buy red bottom everyone has those, get a pair of Pink Bottoms Alex McQueen
You get my drift...Happy creating the " Go To HELL Fund"
Wednesday, May 25, 2011
DAY 10 of the Breakup calendar
Rise and shine.....
So this evening we are going to change what we watch. I know many of us love the reality TV shows.....Today no more lets try something different.
Take in some Artwork...visit your local art galleries....
So this evening we are going to change what we watch. I know many of us love the reality TV shows.....Today no more lets try something different.
Take in some Artwork...visit your local art galleries....
Tuesday, May 24, 2011
DAY 9 of the Breakup calendar
Good afternoon all!!!!
Today I want you to have some chill time. You know relax and kick back , get that ME Time.... So today grab a book you've already read....
Re-read it maybe you'll get something else out of it that you may ave missed next time. " How to Get Out Your Own Way." by Tyrese Gibson ..this is worth a re-read!!!
Today I want you to have some chill time. You know relax and kick back , get that ME Time.... So today grab a book you've already read....
Re-read it maybe you'll get something else out of it that you may ave missed next time. " How to Get Out Your Own Way." by Tyrese Gibson ..this is worth a re-read!!!
Monday, May 23, 2011
DAY 8 of the Breakup calendar
Good morninggggg and Happy Monday,
Hoping everyone enjoyed their weekend! Today is the day girls you go and get that Freak'em Dress... You know the one that says" Look AT ME." Yeah that one. hahahaha
Fellas, if you're a gamer L.A. Noire is hot for the PSP3......
No for those of you following but are shy about leaving comments hit my email smithrobyn94@yahoo.com let me know how this first week has been for you.
Get to Shopping people! and I want to hear all about it, me I think I'm going to shoe shop!!
Hoping everyone enjoyed their weekend! Today is the day girls you go and get that Freak'em Dress... You know the one that says" Look AT ME." Yeah that one. hahahaha
Fellas, if you're a gamer L.A. Noire is hot for the PSP3......
No for those of you following but are shy about leaving comments hit my email smithrobyn94@yahoo.com let me know how this first week has been for you.
Get to Shopping people! and I want to hear all about it, me I think I'm going to shoe shop!!
Sunday, May 22, 2011
Day 7 of the breakup calendar.....
Evening everyone,
Okay so here we are day 7 we have gotten through a whole week. I'm so PROUD of all of you!!!! Now, Today is the day WE will BOX UP anything they have left behind. If they wanted it they would have taken it with them. No excuses.....
Make sure to put it out with tomorrow mornings trash...Enough said...
Okay so here we are day 7 we have gotten through a whole week. I'm so PROUD of all of you!!!! Now, Today is the day WE will BOX UP anything they have left behind. If they wanted it they would have taken it with them. No excuses.....
Make sure to put it out with tomorrow mornings trash...Enough said...
Saturday, May 21, 2011
Day 6 of the breakup calendar
Evening all....
This evening your mission is to go grocery shopping..Buy everything you like to EAT!
Remember you had to think about him/her and what they like. Not anymore, it's all about YOU...
This evening your mission is to go grocery shopping..Buy everything you like to EAT!
Remember you had to think about him/her and what they like. Not anymore, it's all about YOU...
Friday, May 20, 2011
DAY 5 of the breakup calendar
Morning...Morning It's Friday!
Okay so tell me how was your night last night? How many of you woke up this morning looking at your phones, saying OH NO...hahah..
Today your mission is to take a Tip. It can be to anywhere, visit your godparents, an aunt, Grandman it doesn't matter!
Okay so tell me how was your night last night? How many of you woke up this morning looking at your phones, saying OH NO...hahah..
Today your mission is to take a Tip. It can be to anywhere, visit your godparents, an aunt, Grandman it doesn't matter!
Thursday, May 19, 2011
DAY 4 of the day breakup calendar
Hello everyone as we are nearing the weekend things can get a little difficult. STAY STRONG you can do THIS!.
So today when you get off work or finish running errands this is your mission. Call your friends meet at your local bar or go to a restaurant grab a drink and some food and let your friends tell you that Everything Will Be okay........
get to making these plans and please Drink Responsibly. Oh and No making Drunk Phone calls or sending Drunk Text Messeages so rule is turn your phones over to your friends.....
So today when you get off work or finish running errands this is your mission. Call your friends meet at your local bar or go to a restaurant grab a drink and some food and let your friends tell you that Everything Will Be okay........
get to making these plans and please Drink Responsibly. Oh and No making Drunk Phone calls or sending Drunk Text Messeages so rule is turn your phones over to your friends.....
Wednesday, May 18, 2011
DAY 3 of the 30 day breakup calendar
Good morning all....
Okay so how were those conversations? So as some of your friends solicited advice to you yesterday these are what we must do with their words.
Today is the day to Collect your friends advice and kind words in a "Breakup Bible."
Get a notebook, journal pad, use your computer. Take there words and log them be creative when creating this. Some of the things they share with us maybe food for thought for future endevours.
Okay so how were those conversations? So as some of your friends solicited advice to you yesterday these are what we must do with their words.
Today is the day to Collect your friends advice and kind words in a "Breakup Bible."
Get a notebook, journal pad, use your computer. Take there words and log them be creative when creating this. Some of the things they share with us maybe food for thought for future endevours.
Tuesday, May 17, 2011
DAY 2 of the 30 Day Breakup Calendar....
Good morning ...
I'm hoping we were all successful in removing the pictures.. Like I said baby steps. Now today Tell Your Friends.
I know ...I know....but trust me once you release this to them you"ll be able to breathe a little easier. And if they are your true friends there will be no judegement, and may ask something like, " Are you sure, and is your decision based on emotion at the time?"
So make that phone call or go grab lunch and have the conversation. And if all you wish to say is," It's over between you and he/her," and nothing more than that should be enough.
I'm hoping we were all successful in removing the pictures.. Like I said baby steps. Now today Tell Your Friends.
I know ...I know....but trust me once you release this to them you"ll be able to breathe a little easier. And if they are your true friends there will be no judegement, and may ask something like, " Are you sure, and is your decision based on emotion at the time?"
So make that phone call or go grab lunch and have the conversation. And if all you wish to say is," It's over between you and he/her," and nothing more than that should be enough.
Monday, May 16, 2011
DAY 1 of the Breakup Calendar
Good afternoon,
Okay so our first step is to change your cell phone wall paper so it has nothing to do with your ex. I'll take this a step further delete all pictures from you desk top, notebooks, and all pictures from mobile devices. Now for those of us who have child/children with this person it may be a little difficult. We understand.
Okay guys, baby steps today get to deleting......... #30DayBreakupCalendar
Okay so our first step is to change your cell phone wall paper so it has nothing to do with your ex. I'll take this a step further delete all pictures from you desk top, notebooks, and all pictures from mobile devices. Now for those of us who have child/children with this person it may be a little difficult. We understand.
Okay guys, baby steps today get to deleting......... #30DayBreakupCalendar
Sunday, May 15, 2011
The Eve of my now cancelled Wedding Day...
Okay so here's my story. I got engaged to a great guy one year ago. On May 16th 2011 we were to share vows, a private ceremony, celebrate my birthday, and then begin to live Happily Ever After. Well that will not be happening. Wait, no he didn't cheat nor did I but it seems only one of us in that relationship were willing to make multiple changes. So 3 weeks before we were to say "I DO" I called it all OFF.
So stayed tuned, tomorrow we will begin The 30 Day Breakup Calendar, taken from The Frisky 30-Day Breakup Guide written by Jamie Beckman.
As we begin this journey together give me feedback let me know how this is working for you, or if it's helping at all. So follow me on Twitter @RobynSmith11, or on Facebook Monique Smith.
So stayed tuned, tomorrow we will begin The 30 Day Breakup Calendar, taken from The Frisky 30-Day Breakup Guide written by Jamie Beckman.
As we begin this journey together give me feedback let me know how this is working for you, or if it's helping at all. So follow me on Twitter @RobynSmith11, or on Facebook Monique Smith.
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