Tuesday, May 31, 2011

DAY 14 of the Breakup Calendar

Wow... If it gets any hotter I won't be out unitl September!!! lmbo .


Today is an easy day. Remember the days of our innocence? When you liked a girl or guy and would pass THAT note. You know " Do you like me circle yes or no" ...hahaha it was so easy back in the day.

Now call your little niece, sit with your daughter, or your little girl cousin. Recapture the Innocence in being young again.....

Keep cool everybody......

Monday, May 30, 2011

DAY 13 of the Breakup calendar

Happy Memorial Day everyone....

I hope you all enjoyed the trips to the beaches, Spring Fest in Miami, bike week in Myrtle Beach and Ocean City MD. And everywhere else you may have ventured out to; Wine Festivals, camping, hiking etc.

Now today I want you all to take a minute grab a pen and paper and sit down and Write a Letter to Your Best Friend. Tell them all that's going on even if you guys talk everyday!

Happy scribing......

Friday, May 27, 2011

DAY 12 of the Breakup Calendar

Happy Friday to you all.......


Today is the day you embrace either your Girlie Girl Side/or that Manly Side of one self.

For you ladies out there put on the pretty bright color Pink, Yellow, Light Blue, let your hair down.. make sure your nails and toes have been mani and pedi. It is Summer time ladies and you know we love to show our toes.

For you fellas get to the barbershop , get the ride detailed, you know how yall carry it!!!

Thursday, May 26, 2011

DAY 11 of the Breakup calendar

Hello all...

I hope everyone is enjoying this warm weather. So today is the day you start saving ...you're going to love this one.....

"The GO TO HELL FUND" .... Now this fund may be used for anything you wish put as much into it as you desire. What ever you purchase from this fund let it have an impact.

1. New Car
2. New house or major upgrades
3. Strawberry or Chocolate diamonds.... Don't buy red bottom everyone has those, get a pair of Pink Bottoms Alex McQueen

You get my drift...Happy creating the " Go To HELL Fund"

Wednesday, May 25, 2011

DAY 10 of the Breakup calendar

Rise and shine.....

So this evening we are going to change what we watch. I know many of us love the reality TV shows.....Today no more lets try something different.

Take in some Artwork...visit your local art galleries....

Tuesday, May 24, 2011

DAY 9 of the Breakup calendar

Good afternoon all!!!!

Today I want you to have some chill time. You know relax and kick back , get that ME Time.... So today grab a book you've already read....

Re-read it maybe you'll get something else out of it that you may ave missed next time. " How to Get  Out Your Own Way." by Tyrese Gibson ..this is worth a re-read!!!

Monday, May 23, 2011

DAY 8 of the Breakup calendar

Good morninggggg and Happy Monday,

Hoping everyone enjoyed their weekend! Today is the day girls you go and get that Freak'em Dress... You know the one that says" Look AT ME." Yeah that one. hahahaha

Fellas, if you're a gamer L.A. Noire is hot for the PSP3......

No for those of you following but are shy about leaving comments hit my email smithrobyn94@yahoo.com let me know how this first week has been for you.

Get to Shopping people! and I want to hear all about it, me I think I'm going to shoe shop!!

Sunday, May 22, 2011

Day 7 of the breakup calendar.....

Evening everyone,

Okay so here we are day 7 we have gotten through a whole week. I'm so PROUD of all of you!!!! Now, Today is the day WE will BOX UP anything they have left behind. If they wanted it they would have taken it with them. No excuses.....

Make sure to put it out with tomorrow mornings trash...Enough said...

Saturday, May 21, 2011

Day 6 of the breakup calendar

Evening all....

This evening your mission is to go grocery shopping..Buy everything you like to EAT!
Remember you had to think about him/her and what they like. Not anymore, it's all about YOU...

Friday, May 20, 2011

DAY 5 of the breakup calendar

Morning...Morning It's Friday!

Okay so tell me how was your night last night? How many of you woke up this morning looking at your phones, saying OH NO...hahah..

Today your mission is to take a Tip. It can be to anywhere, visit your godparents, an aunt, Grandman it doesn't matter!

Thursday, May 19, 2011

DAY 4 of the day breakup calendar

Hello everyone as we are nearing the weekend things can get a little difficult. STAY STRONG you can do THIS!.

So today when you get off work or finish running errands this is your mission. Call your friends meet at your local bar or go to a restaurant grab a drink and some food and let your friends tell you that Everything Will Be okay........

get to making these plans and please Drink Responsibly. Oh and No making Drunk Phone calls or sending Drunk Text Messeages so rule is turn your phones over to your friends.....

Wednesday, May 18, 2011

DAY 3 of the 30 day breakup calendar

Good morning all....

Okay so how were those conversations? So as some of your friends solicited advice to you yesterday these are what we must do with their words.

Today is the day to Collect your friends advice and kind words in a "Breakup Bible."

Get a notebook, journal pad, use your computer. Take there words and log them be creative when creating this. Some of the things they share with us maybe food for thought for future endevours.

Tuesday, May 17, 2011

DAY 2 of the 30 Day Breakup Calendar....

Good morning ...

I'm hoping we were all successful in removing the pictures.. Like I said baby steps. Now today Tell Your Friends.

I know ...I know....but trust me once you release this to them you"ll be able to breathe a little easier. And if they are your true friends there will be no judegement, and may ask something like, " Are you sure, and is your decision based on emotion at the time?" 

So make that phone call or go grab lunch and have the conversation. And if all you wish to say is," It's over between you and  he/her," and nothing more than that should be enough.

Monday, May 16, 2011

DAY 1 of the Breakup Calendar

Good afternoon,

Okay so our first step is to change your cell phone wall paper so it has nothing to do with your ex. I'll take this a step further delete all pictures from you desk top, notebooks, and all pictures from mobile devices. Now for those of us who have child/children with this person it may be a little difficult. We understand.

Okay guys, baby steps today get to deleting......... #30DayBreakupCalendar

Sunday, May 15, 2011

The Eve of my now cancelled Wedding Day...

Okay so here's my story. I got engaged to a great guy one year ago. On May 16th 2011 we were to share vows, a private ceremony, celebrate my birthday, and then begin to live Happily  Ever After. Well that will not be happening. Wait, no he didn't cheat nor did I but it seems only one of us in that relationship were willing to make multiple changes. So 3 weeks before we were to say  "I DO" I called it all OFF.

So stayed tuned, tomorrow we will begin The 30 Day Breakup Calendar, taken from The Frisky 30-Day Breakup Guide written by Jamie Beckman.

As we begin this journey together give me feedback let me know how this is working for you, or if it's helping at all.  So follow me on Twitter @RobynSmith11, or on Facebook Monique Smith.